Snowy perspectives. 1019182430. Crowded loneliness. Are you listening or. . . ? Snowy perspectives. I stare off into the distance out of the window nearby trying to find the place to start for this
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The significance of September. Altered. When vulnerability IS trauma. Tomorrow. The significance of September. This used to be a time of year that I yearned for. That moment when August turned September was the
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The Haunting. The Real. The Caution. The Toll. The Haunting The Ghost does not live controlled by time;ticking seconds to hours; days to years,birthday cake candles and calendar moments,seasons and sunrises, sunsets, and moon
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Changing landscapes. A sad isolation. Vertigo and vomit. Sirius and the dog days. My cancer diagnosis shattered me. Let me first say that I am absolutely okay admitting that. There is this assumption that
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Reflections. Elusive hope. Toxic hope. A kind hope. A story in a story. We write stories all of the time. There are those that retell the past, full of memories both good and bad.
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Waking up to do. Decisions to make. Boundaries to set. Status quos to challenge. This is for anyone surviving anything because there is a certain camaraderie in the incessance of surviving. Life events that
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Why do we sugarcoat things? Because truth is high stakes. And it’s risky. And sometimes we’ve been harmed by its tactlessness or we’ve been manipulated by its manipulator or it has been weaponized. And
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BTDT. Gaslighting. Relentlessness. Get real. “Been there. Done that.” So…I hear this all of the time and it annoys me every single time. This cliché sends a message that life events exist one-dimensionally, that
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The urgent. The trudge. Cancer teaches me things. BothAnd. I have a very different relationship with time now because of cancer. Cancer does this weird thing with time – it becomes crystal clear that
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Words matter. Stop and think before you speak. An unpopular opinion. And a challenge. Growing up my grandma used to call me Mary Mary. But since my name is Amber, for a long time